Mumbai !!!

This is the place where every person wants to enjoy his life.This is the place where you find different people from different background live their life.This is the place where people want to make something out of them.This is the place where people in local train fight for few seconds,and again comeback back to normal state.This is the place where in crowded BEST buses,whenever a lady is standing next to a man,teenager , the person gently offers her a seat.(Atleast 40% men give their seat to a lady, thinking what if my wife ,daughter,mother would had been in her place).This is the place where there are number of festivals celebrated in a year.This is the place where people don’t ever care for other person, but at the same time like Floods,Bomb-Blast they are ready to help them.

This is the place where Rich are becoming Richer and Poor are becoming Poorer. This is the place where a person flaunt about his Networks in various places.This is the place where a son,daughter kill their parents just for money.This is the place where people are never satisfied when there is shortage of water, they cry…… when flooded ,they cry and die. This is the place where people don’t take initiative, thinking other people will do it. This is the place where pickpocketers looks like office-goers.This is the place where there are Bomb-Blast,Floods ,Fights between communities,Blame-game happens..But still the next day,daily routine continues.This is the place where people forgive everything as to what happened yesterday.This is the place where people change their biological clock for earning money..This is the place where lies are been said very confidently…((for e.g A person has to reach thane station in 10 minutes,that person gets a call from his Boss,wife,friend etc….what instantly comes from his mouth is that he will be reaching thane in 5 minutes, even when he would be at kurla station))….strange!!!...

I have done this thing to……

This is the place where everyone wants to become rich and famous within minutes.This is the place where people are ready to show talent anytime, anyplace, contemplating if some director ,actor or some famous person will come and offer him/her a role.As these things had happened with many people..This is the place where, if one person try to do something for the society, others oppose him/her by giving silly excuses..This is the place where people at night fight for Car-parking..This is the place where one person don’t trust the other one..

This is the place “ Where there is money,there is a way !!! ”

This is the place where a person has to upgrade his presence in the crowd, otherwise it will vanish in between 1 crore people…This is the place where high class people waste their food, throw away in dust-bin and from that dust-bin poor nourish their stomach..This the place where everyone wants to show that he is superior than others…This is the place where people are not angry unless provoked..This is the place where a natural calamity happens, survived people feels happy, by saying atleast we are safe and population is coming under control….This is the place where people learn a lot of lessons from LIFE !!!

This is the place where people are made to adjust in every phase of their life.

But I can say that, no other place like MUMBAI ,when wounded on Wednesday,will be able to getup on Thursday for Work,school,college etc… I am proud to be a “MUMBAIKAR”

Our Mind can be a Terrorist or a Saint...

Our body has a small mass called Brain ,it is just a outer shell of an imaginary nucleus ,which controls our brain called our "Mind"...we cannot feel its hardness or cannot even take a X-ray or MRI scan of our mind, but we can sense it.what all things it does.Our Mind is not even more than 5kg in weight ,but still it can process millions of things through our life.It reminds us of our reminders,birthdays,anniversary,exams time-table,taste of food that we ate at the wedding last night,slap from our friend,getting bad remarks on my school calendar(It still reminds me,red
color ball pen teacher giving me bad remark of talking during periods(lectures) ) and what not .......

Our mind can aspire to be a Terrorist or a Saint. It depends upon how it nurtures itself. If it is taken to the wrong
direction by ourself or by someone,it gets washed out destroying old data and now new data resides on it.Our old mind data also gives us warning signs,like how we have in computer, when we want to delete something ,how computer warns us...like "Are you sure you want to delete this ?",but its of no use,the new virus has corrupted our half mind, no use of deleting it...we let it grow….then things like Hatred ,Jealously, Quarrel between community begins and there are some gheewala's who adds more ghee to the fire between communities, who all worship to the same "GOD" .At this time your GOD also can't do anything dear....

Then groups like Taliban, Al-Qaida, LTTE sprung up to support their very own cause for their Marketing....Things like WTC happens, Babri-Masjid, Bomb Blast in Mumbai’s local trains,26/11 attack in Mumbai happens ,Marathi-Bhaiyaa, Hindu-Muslim happens....these all things happens and will continue to happen… until that new data resides in our mind….You know, Mind always "Play Games" with us, even in any situation , like "I want to play Cricket", it gives us two choices "Either you play cricket or study" and when we are unable to decide, mind has control on us…it can direct us wherever it want us to..Within Micro-second it can take you anywhere on Earth or to any Place...Now I am "Imagining myself in Mars, playing Football and I can see those Land
rovers sent by NASA quietly doing what they are programmed to and seeing me..."see my mind can take me anywhere ,even you can try this....

So it is just that “Either Mind controls Me or I”
Don’t know whose gonna Win…….

Killer instincts !!!

“A person without passion is a person without Life !! ”for me passion is like having killer instincts ,whatever I am now is just because of killer instincts in me..I know many of my friends won’t agree to this..

Because as convention, killer instincts give rise to hatred,jealously, in my case the scene is different ,how I perceive killer instincts or my definition for killer instincts is like ,if a person has achieved something like good marks in exams, he is a multi-tasker, having sportsmanship attitude,is a team player,an entertainer blah blah….if that person can do, why I can’t ,afterall he also has 2 eyes,1 nose,2 ears and 1 BRAIN…..and we are all from the same family called “HUMAN”.Now readers must be thinking of my “jealously” kind of attitude in this kind of judgement…

But for me jealously is not for the person but for the work,I am not jealous about that person,he has achieved this by doing hardwork,dedication etc.A person without eagerness for work,sports,studies or be it anything is a dull person according to me.For me enthusiasm or eagerness is like having killer instincts.If I know I am correct on it,I will go for it,no matter what others say(jealously or anything)

My real-life example is as follows:
During my 12th , I had one friend in Brilliance classes,Arun, he was from Ruia college.he still is my friend and right now he is doing is engineering from VJTI college…haan….so,during our classes test he used score more marks than me,I never got jealous at Arun ,but I was upset with myself that,if he can score well,why can’t I, afterall he and I go to same classes,sit for the same lecture,same professor teaches us ,professors doesn’t teach anything extra in Arun’s ears…he is not getting any special coaching from anyone,but he is striving hard for that subject, that’s why he is getting good marks…so what if I will also work hard I will also score..storing this in mind I also started burning my ass for the board exams…then at the end Arun and I got same marks in Physics paper..though percentage wise he was way ahead of me….then I thought what if I had equally concentrated in all the subjects…..you never know I would have even scored more than him…for me this kind of approach, keeps me alive …to fight …for me killer instincts also have positive outcome..and my definition for JEALOUSLY is..(as said by some one)

“I keep my friends closer,but my enemy more closer”

Embed Faith in your Body !!!

As read or heard so many times," Faith is what keeps Man or Woman alive " and from my personal opinion, I will give it a 10/10 ..

According to me, Faith is a "mental sedative" that keeps an individual alive. You can have faith in yourself, family, friends, colleagues etc. And one day faith in your family, friends, colleagues even GOD can be lost.[ I am not telling that, this is bound to happen ,but it can happen due to some circumstances ].When there is no one to trust or have faith ,at that time please don’t “loose” faith in yourself…You can loose respect in the eyes of many peoples, but if an individual looses respect for himself or herself, then you are destroyed forever…Self-respect ,faith in oneself are the things, with which an individual can live his/her life to fullest…

while scribbling this, my mind retraced one story, which my fufaji once had narrated to me,when he was with me,now he would be there somewhere in space,universe or as a star seeing me,how I am learning and getting lessons from my Life…Ok..not getting deeper…

So here it goes …
Everyone must have heard of a story of Man, his small son and a donkey.Early morning man decided travel from one village to another for some work. while travelling all three were walking one after the another in a straight line, seeing this a group of people laughed and said see this stupid man, he is making his small son walk, when he has a donkey.After hearing this he made his son sit on the donkey.

After one mile another group of village people saw them and said, see the son is sitting on the donkey and poor father is walking, that man on hearing this said ,this is also correct, then he also sat on the donkey…At noon on their way,another set of people saw them and said ,see the man and his son sitting on that poor donkey,who is getting crushed by their weights ..

so they finally decided to get down and man took one long bamboo and tied donkey by his legs upside.and they were on their way to cross a bridge,there was a river beneath the bridge,on hearing the water streams sound, donkey got scared and was moving and shaking here and there, accidently bamboo got slipped from that man and his son’s hand and poor donkey fell in the river…SPLASH !!!!

This small story is just to say that,whatever work you do, have faith in yourself ,no matter what other people say….

“People have Birth-right to oppose you, go against you” ..Hearing and getting swayed by others leads to nowhere,but your own loss.Like in the story how donkey fell.. that man heard and went according to what people said ,and finally only his loss!!!

There are many examples which can show us ,that faith in oneself can give you anything that you desire..Great Mahatma Gandhiji had faith in himself ,when other freedom fighters were against him,and you also know who made India independent…because he had faith in “himself”…and there is also one movie’s dialogue, which I liked and in context to this ,its from “Luck by Chance” here it goes…

“
Apne raaste par chalte raho,chalte raho,
dhire-dhire saari duniya tumhare raaste par aa jayegi...
”

" First impression "

My mind was boggling with this question,just after I passed through a small setback,and thought I should scribble about this thing.Coming to the question, why do
people judge anyone just by their first impression.Is there no other way of judging an individual just by first impression...

as said by someone ,"First Impression is the Last Impression ".I don't know that who has quoted this ...but I just wanted to ask that person " if " I will get a chance..
whether that person in his whole life has done or achieved great heights by just his first impression towards people or organisation....has he never failed on his first
impression..Come on everyone is not perfect at their first impression...
{
This is my personal point-Infact what I think is that, the people who shows his first impression very nicely is himself /herself a FAKE.....(Because they all know that ,this is the time they have to be confident )
}

(Impression---> you can link it with anything like
first impression during Job Interview,
first impression during Presentation at Office/Seminar,
first impression during Meeting new people,
first impression during Dating with girl or boy,
for the first time cooking Food for any special person ,
for the first time Project work shown to the Moderator or Professor..
and you name it !!! )

I am not fuming for I have been through.But I, myself has judged many people in my life when I met them.But later regretted that I was so wrong in judging them in
just first impression ..and one of them was my College friend whose name is Aditya, whom I first thought that, he had lots of attitude and what not....But I was totally
wrong,there so called "first impression" went absurd for me and now he is one of the best friend I will ever have !!!

Can't a second impression shown by that person will show a hell lot of change as compared to the first impression..

But as we all follow the same old convention that
" Competition ka zaamana hai ji, First Impression is the Last impression "
what to do??

Good Shayaris...

I have heard these shayaris in 100.7 fm. radio station by a poet "Karan Singh",i really liked the way he has poured his thoughts in these....hope you also enjoy some from the collection....

1.) Khud se upar jaane ki umeed hai har roz,
ek din mein aisa kahan ho sakta hai,
agar kaam hota aasan toh yeh batao,
kaun nahi jo roz ek khwab bo sakta hai,
isliye roz zehan ko mein nichodta hun
aur karta hun mujhse ho jo sakta hai....

2) Tujhe tanhayee khalne lagi thi isliye,
mein mehaz ek insaan se pura sansaar ban gaya,
teri khushi ke liye meine sach ko jhoot kaha,
padha-likha tha, magar aaj gavaar ban gaya,
aaj tera bhi Dil machla Mohabbat ke liye,
tujhe door na jaana padhe,isliye mein pyaar ban gaya....

3) Yun toh aankhen rehati hain hamesha khoyi-khoyi si,
teri aankhen dekhkar hi inhe, fadhkana yaad aata hai,
mein bhi yun toh hun zara phatar Dil mijaz ,
par tujhe rota dekh,mujhe tadapna yaad aata hai,
dil bhi tera sust ,bulakad mujh jaisa,
par teri aahat sun ne se,isse dhakhana yaad aata hai...

4.) Tasveer kagaz par aye utaarane wale,
kabhi hume bhi toh aankhon mein utaar,
dawa karo, dua karo jab lage koi maraj,
kuch na karo jab lage pyaar ka bukhaar,
koi wafaa ke laayak nahi is jahaan mein ,
jaa apni iss soch ko jaakar tu sudhaar.....

5.) Muuh mein kyun hai zubaan ,
jab usse hi na woh pukaare.
khud badan hi na de saath,
toh jiye rooh kiske sahaare,
kabh se intezaar mein hun aye ilaahi,
par raah na aaye nazar,
meri nazar hui kamjoor, ya tere dhundale pade ishaare,
meine suni hai nazar se uski ek pukaar, ek intajaa asar,
de uske labon ko toh harf(shabd),
tab tak woh aankh se pukaare...

6.) Uske husn ki kheti choguni ho rahi,
uspar padi har nazar khwaishe bo rahi,
usse dekh mera imaan mela-mela hua,
usse dekh kar nazar rooh ko dho rahi,
aasmaan cheer diya aaj toh isne asar,
taadh ho gayi chahat,kabhi til jo rahi...

7.) Tujhe toh rokh lun magar,teri majburi ko kis tarah taalun,
mann ke kis kuaen se isse rokhena ka bahaana nikalun,
isliye yeh soch kar ki,tu chahakar bhi meri khatir na rukh payega,
mein tujhe haske kar dun vida,jaane tu lautkar fir kab aayega,
bas ek hi guzarish hai tujhe se agar tu aaj mere liye na rukh sake,
itna na jaana dur jahaan meri intezaar ki sada na pahuch sake...

8.) Zara sa aapka waqt lunga, agar izazat ho toh,
ek dard jabadan hoton par chad aaya hai,
raakh si shakal ho gayi hai meri aye doston ,
uske pyaar mein itna khoon jalaaya hai,
aur chamak raha hai woh bewaafa ho kar bhi,
mere askhon se woh kya saaf nahaaya hai...

9.) Meine chahaa ki, meri pasand ki ladki dharti par hi ho,
jannat mein jaane ke liye, marna padha toh,
yeh bhi chahaa ki woh bilkul bhi khubsurat na ho,
usko paane ki khatir, agar zamaana bhi adaa toh,
aur yeh bhi chaaha ki, woh rahe ghar ke aas pass kahin,
kya pata naye "BUDGET" mein Bus bhaada bada toh.....

So these are some of the shayaris from the collection, i will also be updating new,and good ones ...hope you liked it....

Thank you :-) ...

SCORPION'S MIND

I am teek-taak so-so ladka....lol... prima facie, i am an introvert person..but as i get along wid people,i am boisterous human..I like to help those people who are
less fortunate than me,i will try my best 2 help them,but i also don't want to do mouth feeding..as my college friend name "Jeeva" used to help others during our
college years(2005-2008) at S.I.E.S College.I am emotional person but quite often shows very hard-hearted..On first glance people think that i have loads of
Arrogance.....and ((((( ATTITUDE ))))))
I am mysterious,inscrutable person,even i don't know myself very properly...Strange!!! Some People think that i am very promethean which i am not,only in front of my Friends....lol

I feel that i have Good sense of humour..I can sometimes able to make people happy by cracking stupid,vulgar,PJ jokes..just to see there 32 teeths
flashing at me...my desire is to always make people happy by cracking funny jokes.I always want my friends to be together,there to help one another in happy and
sad moments of life..
Though i am an Atheist but i do believe in mankind..I believe that instead of going to holy places and donating money in that Collection Box,if you are able to help
the needy people who don't even get a one time food to eat ,atleast help them, they can give you blessings from their heart.Donating Litres Of Milk at the Occassion
Of "Naag-Pachmi" only on that Stone,which actually goes to the Sewage or Gutters is totally waste...Instead if you give half of it to needy people how happy they will
be...GOD himself wants people to help one another...but as we see a beggar coming towards us we move side ways..and the next day we go to " Holy Places " and
pray for ourselves...Do we think GOD will help us...Don't be materialistic by doing Aarti,Fast(Uppas),Prayers that we do to praise that one Carved Stone...These
stones which people say GOD cant give you anything...just for satisfaction people go to holy places that GOD will help him/her.
we should just do our work by making ourself happy,family and surrounding.
I don't like those people who flaunt about themselves.What i feel is that though i have knowledge about certain things i should not be very proud about that thing
because at the same time there will be another person in some part of the world who would be having double the knowledge than me.Contradictory to this,Unless you
don't show your Knowledge or Talent,how would the opposite person be able to understand thing you have in your mind.
I don't know whether flaunting about yourself is a kind of "Marketing Strategy" so that people would be attracted towards that person just by listening to that person
once....and that to in this Century(Kalyug)or Plastic world. As i have seen people achieving not only good but also great responses by this kind of work...for example the Brand name "S.R.K"...I really adore
the way he promotes his films and has done great job in it .He has also jumped into Cricket by part-ownering "KOLKATA-KNIGHT RIDERS".Which has really
helped him achieved a lot ...for me he is multi-tasker. And i also want to fire one more example where a person from the same fraternity i.e Bollywood is trying to catch up by the same way as Shah Rukh
Khan,and rather pretty unusual way by "Cutting hairs" for promoting his films.There must be some reason where he(Perfectionist) must have seen that Marketing can
boost our projects a lot.The person who was very modest and perfectionist in earlier years was not much into marketing himself.just used to do his work that was
enough for him, never use to accept awards.not accepting the awards remains the same with him, but i have seen a subtle changes in him.
I am not trying to earn brownie points for Shah Rukh Khan, but u can also observe the things. After these 2 examples i wanted to know whether to flaunt or rather "Market urself" or to be modest to survive in this Kalyug,where every now and
then there is competition popping up..don't know where the answers lie....But it also depends on how you perceive things in life, your strategies,Shortcuts which are
beneficial to you and the others..
One thing that i would like to change in me is to " STOP BITING MY NAILS " ...just bcoz of this people think that i am very nervous kind of fellow,always takes
Tension....etc
Right now i don't have any issues to discuss on my blog but when i will have one,i'll surely scribble...
thanks a ton for reading this..