We all get messages by our friends,loved one....that
"Just be yourself. !!!!"
"Don't change yourself ".....
but I dont agree with this quote,People should not carry same attitude which he/she has ...
Situational theory...which says a person should know how to adapt to the situation and that always benefits.Person with the same attitude can survive for long time...as "Charles Darwin"..who had quoted -"Survival
of the fittest"...and I can give you an example if I am not wrong .......correct me if i am wrong....COCKROACHES were ...on this earth earlier than our very own stereotyped spieces
" DINOSAURS"....Dinosaurs didnt adapted themselves to new situations so they are extinct...not even "one" roaming around in mumbai streets ...following Mumbai's traffic signals.... :-)but we have these
cockroaches in our home....strange!!!!...
You can also correlate it with life.....
During school days....If you don't share your crayons with your bench-partner,he/she will not give you his/her bread and jam at recess..
During College days...If you don't socialise with students ,no one is going to bother about you...
After joining new Office ---If you don't adapt yourself to office culture(new situation)...then you are finished..!!!!
even if your ethics don't allow you to do so..But sometimes you have to kill your ethics ...follow the "Big-Boss" strategy...
there Situational theory plays it role....I don't know whether it is human tendency or something else...Otherwise we all will become DINOSAURS... :-) :-)
