World is a full circle…What you do comes back to you !!!

After such a long gap, again my mind wanted to scribble something that is very obvious happening around with people in their lives, the only difference is, they don’t care or don’t have time to sit back and just rewind the things that had happened. Do good to others, good things will happen with you for surely, not necessary at that time, but will happen. There is some mystery in balancing out the things which takes time. And as a law of nature, which we had read and heard so many times-

“AS YOU SOW, SO SHALL YOU REAP” holds true.

But don’t do just for the sake of doing it, it should directly come from within. Consider yourself fortunate than others, the place where you are sitting/ standing, eating  & sleeping  etc etc ,which might not be possible or utterly impossible for the less fortunate ones out there in this world.

The world is not that BAD as we claim it in this 21^st century. Nice people still exist, its just that we should do our bit for making not just “World full of people” but  “ SMILING WORLD  FULL OF PEOPLE”.   

Once upon a time in Evening ......

The other day I was returning from work,in the bus..tired and listening to f.m stations as usual...while i was moving ,i saw how people have changed themselves a lot because of work or situation has changed people...I will be jotting down all the things that i have seen and u will also agree on this..

You will notice these things when you will take a ride from ghatkopar station to Andheri...in the evening at around 6.00-6.30pm...and i guarantee you, you will love it....

1.)I had seen that people of this generation are tired very soon, they sleep in Rickshaws,Cabs,Taxis & offcourse common man's "Flesh and bones packed B.E.S.T buses"...

2.)People listening to f.m stations in their sleep....

3.)Ladies doing make-up for party time in rickshaws & some ladies tapping with fingers on their laptop...

4.)During the time of jam,half of them peeping out of rick,taxis to see if some gud guy or girl is passing out...

5.)One use of jam is, you have the time to think on something till the jam gets cleared out..like the bus running those ads,no one, mind you, no one even bothers of those ads....but once there is a jam or signal...we get know that bus was running an ad...

6.)Half of them covering their nose with hanky in rick,due to pollution ...

7.)Now a days ,teenage girls on cell phone talking with her teen brother...
(good metaphor)

8.)Obese guy on rick because he can't fit in B.E.S.T buses filled with other 100 social animals...

9.)People have in mind that, walking, instead of vehicle as sign of poor...in fact this poor is more stronger than we all vehicle-attached beings...

10.)One irony because of these fatigue "Fat people are becoming Fatter & thin are diminishing..... "

My motto of highlighting these points is ....people are becoming weaker and weaker...as compared to our older generation...People wants to make fast money & they are making too.....but in this race they are losing their health too..

Find sometime for devoting it to yourself..go for morning walk,aerobics,hit a gym,but NO.....

and if
"Pizza,burger,chicken...wat time we will be there"..

There is one good hebrew proverb..

"FIRST WE LOSE OUR HEALTH TO GAIN WEALTH & LATER WE LOSE OUR WEALTH TO GAIN HEALTH"

I am against " Just be yourself "quote.. ....

We all get messages by our friends,loved one....that

"Just be yourself. !!!!"

"Don't change yourself ".....

but I dont agree with this quote,People should not carry same attitude which he/she has ...

Situational theory...which says a person should know how to adapt to the situation and that always benefits.Person with the same attitude can survive for long time...as "Charles Darwin"..who had quoted -"Survival

of the fittest"...and I can give you an example if I am not wrong .......correct me if i am wrong....COCKROACHES were ...on this earth earlier than our very own stereotyped spieces

" DINOSAURS"....Dinosaurs didnt adapted themselves to new situations so they are extinct...not even "one" roaming around in mumbai streets ...following Mumbai's traffic signals.... :-)but we have these

cockroaches in our home....strange!!!!...

You can also correlate it with life.....

During school days....If you don't share your crayons with your bench-partner,he/she will not give you his/her bread and jam at recess..

During College days...If you don't socialise with students ,no one is going to bother about you...

After joining new Office ---If you don't adapt yourself to office culture(new situation)...then you are finished..!!!!

even if your ethics don't allow you to do so..But sometimes you have to kill your ethics ...follow the "Big-Boss" strategy...

there Situational theory plays it role....I don't know whether it is human tendency or something else...Otherwise we all will become DINOSAURS... :-) :-)

Mumbai !!!

This is the place where every person wants to enjoy his life.This is the place where you find different people from different background live their life.This is the place where people want to make something out of them.This is the place where people in local train fight for few seconds,and again comeback back to normal state.This is the place where in crowded BEST buses,whenever a lady is standing next to a man,teenager , the person gently offers her a seat.(Atleast 40% men give their seat to a lady, thinking what if my wife ,daughter,mother would had been in her place).This is the place where there are number of festivals celebrated in a year.This is the place where people don’t ever care for other person, but at the same time like Floods,Bomb-Blast they are ready to help them.

This is the place where Rich are becoming Richer and Poor are becoming Poorer. This is the place where a person flaunt about his Networks in various places.This is the place where a son,daughter kill their parents just for money.This is the place where people are never satisfied when there is shortage of water, they cry…… when flooded ,they cry and die. This is the place where people don’t take initiative, thinking other people will do it. This is the place where pickpocketers looks like office-goers.This is the place where there are Bomb-Blast,Floods ,Fights between communities,Blame-game happens..But still the next day,daily routine continues.This is the place where people forgive everything as to what happened yesterday.This is the place where people change their biological clock for earning money..This is the place where lies are been said very confidently…((for e.g A person has to reach thane station in 10 minutes,that person gets a call from his Boss,wife,friend etc….what instantly comes from his mouth is that he will be reaching thane in 5 minutes, even when he would be at kurla station))….strange!!!...

I have done this thing to……

This is the place where everyone wants to become rich and famous within minutes.This is the place where people are ready to show talent anytime, anyplace, contemplating if some director ,actor or some famous person will come and offer him/her a role.As these things had happened with many people..This is the place where, if one person try to do something for the society, others oppose him/her by giving silly excuses..This is the place where people at night fight for Car-parking..This is the place where one person don’t trust the other one..

This is the place “ Where there is money,there is a way !!! ”

This is the place where a person has to upgrade his presence in the crowd, otherwise it will vanish in between 1 crore people…This is the place where high class people waste their food, throw away in dust-bin and from that dust-bin poor nourish their stomach..This the place where everyone wants to show that he is superior than others…This is the place where people are not angry unless provoked..This is the place where a natural calamity happens, survived people feels happy, by saying atleast we are safe and population is coming under control….This is the place where people learn a lot of lessons from LIFE !!!

This is the place where people are made to adjust in every phase of their life.

But I can say that, no other place like MUMBAI ,when wounded on Wednesday,will be able to getup on Thursday for Work,school,college etc… I am proud to be a “MUMBAIKAR”

Our Mind can be a Terrorist or a Saint...

Our body has a small mass called Brain ,it is just a outer shell of an imaginary nucleus ,which controls our brain called our "Mind"...we cannot feel its hardness or cannot even take a X-ray or MRI scan of our mind, but we can sense it.what all things it does.Our Mind is not even more than 5kg in weight ,but still it can process millions of things through our life.It reminds us of our reminders,birthdays,anniversary,exams time-table,taste of food that we ate at the wedding last night,slap from our friend,getting bad remarks on my school calendar(It still reminds me,red
color ball pen teacher giving me bad remark of talking during periods(lectures) ) and what not .......

Our mind can aspire to be a Terrorist or a Saint. It depends upon how it nurtures itself. If it is taken to the wrong
direction by ourself or by someone,it gets washed out destroying old data and now new data resides on it.Our old mind data also gives us warning signs,like how we have in computer, when we want to delete something ,how computer warns us...like "Are you sure you want to delete this ?",but its of no use,the new virus has corrupted our half mind, no use of deleting it...we let it grow….then things like Hatred ,Jealously, Quarrel between community begins and there are some gheewala's who adds more ghee to the fire between communities, who all worship to the same "GOD" .At this time your GOD also can't do anything dear....

Then groups like Taliban, Al-Qaida, LTTE sprung up to support their very own cause for their Marketing....Things like WTC happens, Babri-Masjid, Bomb Blast in Mumbai’s local trains,26/11 attack in Mumbai happens ,Marathi-Bhaiyaa, Hindu-Muslim happens....these all things happens and will continue to happen… until that new data resides in our mind….You know, Mind always "Play Games" with us, even in any situation , like "I want to play Cricket", it gives us two choices "Either you play cricket or study" and when we are unable to decide, mind has control on us…it can direct us wherever it want us to..Within Micro-second it can take you anywhere on Earth or to any Place...Now I am "Imagining myself in Mars, playing Football and I can see those Land
rovers sent by NASA quietly doing what they are programmed to and seeing me..."see my mind can take me anywhere ,even you can try this....

So it is just that “Either Mind controls Me or I”
Don’t know whose gonna Win…….

Killer instincts !!!

“A person without passion is a person without Life !! ”for me passion is like having killer instincts ,whatever I am now is just because of killer instincts in me..I know many of my friends won’t agree to this..

Because as convention, killer instincts give rise to hatred,jealously, in my case the scene is different ,how I perceive killer instincts or my definition for killer instincts is like ,if a person has achieved something like good marks in exams, he is a multi-tasker, having sportsmanship attitude,is a team player,an entertainer blah blah….if that person can do, why I can’t ,afterall he also has 2 eyes,1 nose,2 ears and 1 BRAIN…..and we are all from the same family called “HUMAN”.Now readers must be thinking of my “jealously” kind of attitude in this kind of judgement…

But for me jealously is not for the person but for the work,I am not jealous about that person,he has achieved this by doing hardwork,dedication etc.A person without eagerness for work,sports,studies or be it anything is a dull person according to me.For me enthusiasm or eagerness is like having killer instincts.If I know I am correct on it,I will go for it,no matter what others say(jealously or anything)

My real-life example is as follows:
During my 12th , I had one friend in Brilliance classes,Arun, he was from Ruia college.he still is my friend and right now he is doing is engineering from VJTI college…haan….so,during our classes test he used score more marks than me,I never got jealous at Arun ,but I was upset with myself that,if he can score well,why can’t I, afterall he and I go to same classes,sit for the same lecture,same professor teaches us ,professors doesn’t teach anything extra in Arun’s ears…he is not getting any special coaching from anyone,but he is striving hard for that subject, that’s why he is getting good marks…so what if I will also work hard I will also score..storing this in mind I also started burning my ass for the board exams…then at the end Arun and I got same marks in Physics paper..though percentage wise he was way ahead of me….then I thought what if I had equally concentrated in all the subjects…..you never know I would have even scored more than him…for me this kind of approach, keeps me alive …to fight …for me killer instincts also have positive outcome..and my definition for JEALOUSLY is..(as said by some one)

“I keep my friends closer,but my enemy more closer”

Embed Faith in your Body !!!

As read or heard so many times," Faith is what keeps Man or Woman alive " and from my personal opinion, I will give it a 10/10 ..

According to me, Faith is a "mental sedative" that keeps an individual alive. You can have faith in yourself, family, friends, colleagues etc. And one day faith in your family, friends, colleagues even GOD can be lost.[ I am not telling that, this is bound to happen ,but it can happen due to some circumstances ].When there is no one to trust or have faith ,at that time please don’t “loose” faith in yourself…You can loose respect in the eyes of many peoples, but if an individual looses respect for himself or herself, then you are destroyed forever…Self-respect ,faith in oneself are the things, with which an individual can live his/her life to fullest…

while scribbling this, my mind retraced one story, which my fufaji once had narrated to me,when he was with me,now he would be there somewhere in space,universe or as a star seeing me,how I am learning and getting lessons from my Life…Ok..not getting deeper…

So here it goes …
Everyone must have heard of a story of Man, his small son and a donkey.Early morning man decided travel from one village to another for some work. while travelling all three were walking one after the another in a straight line, seeing this a group of people laughed and said see this stupid man, he is making his small son walk, when he has a donkey.After hearing this he made his son sit on the donkey.

After one mile another group of village people saw them and said, see the son is sitting on the donkey and poor father is walking, that man on hearing this said ,this is also correct, then he also sat on the donkey…At noon on their way,another set of people saw them and said ,see the man and his son sitting on that poor donkey,who is getting crushed by their weights ..

so they finally decided to get down and man took one long bamboo and tied donkey by his legs upside.and they were on their way to cross a bridge,there was a river beneath the bridge,on hearing the water streams sound, donkey got scared and was moving and shaking here and there, accidently bamboo got slipped from that man and his son’s hand and poor donkey fell in the river…SPLASH !!!!

This small story is just to say that,whatever work you do, have faith in yourself ,no matter what other people say….

“People have Birth-right to oppose you, go against you” ..Hearing and getting swayed by others leads to nowhere,but your own loss.Like in the story how donkey fell.. that man heard and went according to what people said ,and finally only his loss!!!

There are many examples which can show us ,that faith in oneself can give you anything that you desire..Great Mahatma Gandhiji had faith in himself ,when other freedom fighters were against him,and you also know who made India independent…because he had faith in “himself”…and there is also one movie’s dialogue, which I liked and in context to this ,its from “Luck by Chance” here it goes…

“
Apne raaste par chalte raho,chalte raho,
dhire-dhire saari duniya tumhare raaste par aa jayegi...
”